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Death Cleaning is Life Affirming
All our lives we collect possessions, accumulate assets, we hold physical objects as memories and pride. We want not to be erased.
Mundane
There often days and weeks of intense work and pressure. Its fun, its invigorating, high on adrenaline. When its done I am looking forward to not sleep in as others normally do, but to do mundane stuff. To go to the vegetable mandi to look and feel the vegetables while menu plans drift in andContinue reading “Mundane”
Grief
There is no one way to grieve like there is no one way to live. My tryst with grief has been fairly different from many others. I wondered why for a while. I questioned myself about my inability to grieve. Every time I consoled someone else, or counselled, I kept checking how I felt aboutContinue reading “Grief”
Frailty of Life
In a world where “youth-like” and productivity is celebrated, where does the gradual and natural aging fit in ? I watch my father quietly negotiating spoonful of “maach bhat” gingerly into his mouth each afternoon, which now takes him an hour to finish. A meagre meal of dal and maach bhat , or 2 chapattiContinue reading “Frailty of Life”
Love
Love has always been projected as between a man and woman … leading to either tragedy or happily ever after. This heteronormative image has been created and reinforced over and over through preaching, family tales, literature, societal events and pop culture. But the beauty of love is that it is universal, all encompassing, life givingContinue reading “Love”
A Me I didn’t know
Mental health is complex … an enigma … a road full of blooming trees, sudden potholes, detours, often absence of maps, dark, lonely, sudden ray of sunshine and birds singing, thunder, downpours, fellow travelers, cheering crowds, jeering folks … but I am here ! I think I am here. My doctor has to certify thatContinue reading “A Me I didn’t know”
Are You Selling Attention
Technology is a tool for both helping humans and destroying them. This is the paradox of our time which we are compelled to face. Frank Herbert
Success
Its that time of the year … when young aspiring fellows graduate out from school to find their world and we wish them success and luck. It seems certain you need luck for success. It also reminds me of the office calendar that gives me the most heartburn … performance reviews. Each has their ownContinue reading “Success”
Meandering Dialogues 